Master Hongyi icon said: "The fish trusted the water so much, but the water boiled it; the leaves trusted the wind so much, but the wind blew them down; I trusted you so much, but you hurt me. Later I discovered that the one who cooked the fish was not Water, but fire; it is not the wind that blows down the leaves, but the seasons; it is not you who hurt me, it is my obsession. Any relationship to the end is just an acquaintance. If you are not hurt, the years will be fine, In fact, what can really heal you is not time, but relief."

Perhaps, understanding and trust are the best ways to communicate between people. However, many times, when you give everything, you do not get the rewards you deserve, but are let down and hurt.
Everyone will inevitably encounter fate in their lives. Just cherish it when it comes. No matter what you pay, even if you don't get the results you want, don't be discouraged or complain.
Mr. Yang Jiangicon once said: "There is no person in this world who is not injured. You must believe at any time that the only one who can truly heal you is yourself. Don't complain, don't be afraid of being alone, and work hard to settle down. The world is full of suffering, but you can only heal yourself." Crossing. Life is half fireworks, half joy, half sobriety, half relief. May your heart be magnificent and always believe that the world is worth it."
There is no smooth road in life, let alone ease. Everyone is running in the wind and rain, moving forward in the joys and sorrows, and injuries are inevitable.
As long as you don't complain, face everything with tolerance and determination. Don't be greedy, don't be arrogant, dare to face reality, maintain inner peace, calm yourself, know how to overcome sorrow and joy, and let go of everything, only then can you feel that the world is worth it.
No matter what you experience in life, do not seek revenge, but learn to let go. This is the wisdom of life.
If you stick to one thought and persist in understanding, you will inevitably get into a deadlock; abandoning past grudges, letting go of everything, tolerance and understanding, is the freedom of life.
In this world, people's hearts are unpredictable. Let yourself change, allow everything to happen, and accept everything that happens. Don't feel inferior, and don't force yourself. Just be calm and calm, and face it with a smile.
Life lasts only a hundred years, what can't you think about and let go of? A hundred years later, without you and me, we will all return to dust, dust to dust.
When people are alive, they should be tolerant of what they can tolerate and let go of what they can let go of. Don't be too paranoid, let alone overestimate your position in the hearts of others. Maybe you are just a speck of dust in the hearts of others.
As Marquez wrote in "One Hundred Years of Solitude": "The essence of life is that a person should not have too many expectations for others. We always want to find people who can share our pain and sorrow, but most people At that time, our earth-shattering pains were just dust in the eyes of others. Perhaps the loneliness of adults is to overcome the joys and sorrows."
You control your own life, and you bear your own choices. No matter what, your own choices are the responsibilities you should bear. All sorrows and joys are cause and effect. Because of your intentions, you are sad.
Even if you are let down, you will not regret it. It can be said that you are willing to admit defeat. Don’t be confused, there are all kinds of people in this world, and some people and things will teach you a lot.
Sakyamuni once said: "No matter who you meet, he is the person who should appear in your life. It is no accident. He will definitely teach you something. No matter what happens, that is the only thing that will happen." , no matter which moment it starts, it’s the right moment.”
In this case, don’t ask again: Why do you still get hurt when you trust others? Why do I always get hurt after giving?
In fact, if you are not injured and the years are fine, what can really heal you is not time, but relief. Life is a process of growth, understanding and experience. If you are relieved, everything will be the best arrangement.
In this journey of life, we will meet all kinds of people, learn lessons, and let ourselves grow.
Then let yourself learn to adapt to circumstances and be content with them. After doing your best, having a clear conscience is the best result.
If you feel relieved and look down on it, you will find that your world is a different scene. To look down on it means to keep your heart simple, let go of everything, and not be sad or complain.
Some people also say: "Those encounters in your life that you thought were destined by chance are all destined. In fact, those so-called destined fates are inevitable. No one can shirk it and no one can escape it. When two people are related, they will Meet, get to know each other, meet each other, and repay each other's debts due to fate."
Therefore, only by keeping a low profile on gains and losses in life can we live comfortably, and can we move forward calmly without losing anything.